Educational disclaimer
Last updated: 13 August 2026
Educational disclaimer
Do we align? is an educational relationship platform.
The content is created for general information, personal reflection and constructive relationship conversations.
The operator, Patrycja Bela, is not a psychologist, psychotherapist, psychiatrist, physician, lawyer or financial adviser.
Nothing on the website should be interpreted as:
psychotherapy
couples counselling
psychological diagnosis
psychiatric or medical advice
legal advice
financial advice
crisis intervention
a professional assessment of whether you should remain in or leave a relationship
The relationship questions and guides are designed to help users explore their own expectations, behaviours and differences.
They cannot take into account every individual's history, mental health, culture, circumstances or safety.
Relationship safety
Some relationship issues require more than a conversation exercise.
Professional or specialist support may be appropriate where a situation involves:
violence
abuse
coercive control
intimidation or threats
serious financial control or deception
addiction
trauma
severe emotional distress
persistent sexual pain or dysfunction
serious legal or financial consequences
Where personal safety is at risk, safety should take priority over completing a couple exercise.
No diagnosis
Terms such as attachment, emotional safety, pursue-withdraw patterns, financial secrecy or conflict styles are used for educational purposes.
They should not be used to diagnose yourself or another person.
No guaranteed result
Do we align? does not guarantee any particular relationship outcome.
The purpose is to support clearer understanding and conversation.
Decisions remain yours.
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